Indeed, I believe there is a reality that your perceptions start giving you directions but showing humility to everything actually ruins your life. But, some unpredictable experiences appear in the world to make some efforts and to show their existence. We live in a world where we find clashes of civilizations, so you start finding opposite attractions. Therefore, we should believe in the law of attraction (LOA) with caution. Before it starts making things more complex and one could not assure the quality of life. Take some precautionary steps that I learnt. I discovered such solutions after realizing the law of attraction ruined my life because of believing it in a wrong manner. Hindrances when occur in your life you have to take some practical goals while maintaining a balance in your life. In this article, I will highlight some of my mistakes I made, due to misinformation and my intention was to pursue success. At the same time, I will try to explore how those errors took me to unexpected turns and undesirable outcomes.
- Over Reliance on Visualisation
- Neglecting Practical Steps
- Ignoring Social Anxiety
- Neglecting Skill Development
- Financial Responsibility
- Isolation
- Procrastination
- Failure to adapt
- Lack of clarity
- Unrealistic Expectations
1. Over Reliance on Visualization
Visualization gets you clarity but not only your mind has complex thoughts with a vision. But the problem arises here that I never wanted to lose spirituality while wishing to get appraisals from the people one demands. It made me impractical regarding making choices and observed elements while approaching my philosophies of life. Such overreliance and making opinions keeping specific judgements in life kept me restrained from taking some productive decisions.
2. Neglecting Practical Steps
In life, we have to fulfil some specific responsibilities that one can never ignore. For example, fulfilling commitments, managing disturbance and overcoming the shells of your life. Feeding family is also one becomes, if it comes into your commitment. I started assuming that my each thought is essential and I have the ability to fulfil my responsibility with honour. However, situations turned differently and especially at the time of COVID-19. Moreover, we are facing consequences of that viral disease in these times as well, as in the result of inflation. So then I found that I was neglecting some practical steps and strategies of the real world. The flow of thoughts will continue but you have to manage it well.
3. Procrastination
Using LOA as an excuse for procrastination and avoiding necessary tasks. I started believing that I can make everything happen anytime with the power of my mind. Overconfidence within me led me to procrastinating. Which after some time dwells in some regrets. For example, not having enough skills to survive on my cost of living standards.
Furthermore, what I can say was that I saw then the arrival of AI that was actually a real threat to my financial stability, as a content writer. In all situations, I used to demand outcomes in my favour, but now I recognise the importance of putting in genuine efforts and adapting to ensure positive results in my life. It’s a shift from expectation to intentional action.
4. Ignoring Social Anxiety
My thoughts started pushing me to meet people with more like minded people. The people who have similar ambitions and similar plans to their financial journey or other journey of life. Such use of LOA created a social anxiety within me. I started avoiding many people that I believe I should not have, especially my family members. Rest, everyone has the liberty still I believe to choose friends but if it comes about professional relationships try to have one firm personality. That you believe is important to maintain to fulfill the vision of your life. However, that one learns with time. But, this should not have become my professional hindrance.
5. Neglecting Skill Development
When you have specific and narrower ranges to portray your piece of art then it is not good to get another skill with. However, it is important to make it obvious that if one defines one thing at one point then it becomes the law of nature to get a feeling of confidence. Without it, the chances of ambiguity will occur more. But, at the same time, ignoring the importance of skill development is not implementation of the law of attraction. I have learnt from my mistake that spending more time on mental states restricts growth than acquiring tangible skills for career advancement.
6. Financial Irresponsibility
Avoiding financial responsibility had become a part of my personality. Meanwhile, I try avoiding even calculation of my monthly budgets. I was not even familiar with my needs and my income. I started to console myself that trusting solely in vibrational states instead of managing finances effectively. But, it is not a valid excuse to avoid something necessary for my routine life. However, it is important for me to make my income to such a level so I could afford software management tools to manage my routine tasks. Until then, I should manage my finances. What matters, even if the software management just costs for 79$ to get cloud storage. Now I believe I should have a personality to manage my finances as well, while meeting my budget.
7. Isolation
Spending excessive time in altered states, leading to isolation and a lack of social connections. I was somehow in search of perfection. There was procrastination as well. It became difficult for me to manage multiple aspects of life with one personality. I preferred isolating myself. I admit, giving yourself time is important, but still here comes how you manage your time. By the way, the software management tool simplifies time management as well. Later on, I found that meeting people is important, who matter in your life and everyone wants your consideration and they want to give attention. Specify time for yourself, rather than isolation.
8. Failure to Adapt
Not adapting beliefs when they prove ineffective in achieving tangible results. Giving different reasons for a failure. I did not properly identify my own fears. However, it is not wrong saying that I was not even ready to face fears. Meanwhile, admitting faults needs courage and not repeating it demands more. It made memorisation power difficult and breaking my personality became difficult. It is good where one narrates and creates but one points out that it is harsh. This behaviour I need to change.
9. Lack of Clarity
Abrupt change in moods, feeling agitation a lot because of unlikely situations and indecisiveness became common in my personality. It is a very bad trait of a personality. Therefore, I often say that the law of attraction ruined my life. Such blurry effects create confusions and lack of clarity and one starts avoiding practical planning. That actually happened to me and I have faced such problems therefore I try to implement the law of attraction in a practical sense.
10. Unrealistic Expectations
Expecting results solely from mental exercises, neglecting the importance of hard work and perseverance. I started believing that the energy and methods I have utilised are perfect but again the talk comes that human minds are different. I still agree that one starts foreseeing results according to the actions but expect realistically. Keeping all the situations in mind, however one should not make one subject to common manners. Therefore one should connect with people with common values but diverse perspectives and outcomes in their habits are important to ponder. I will implement it now to broaden your horizon and enrich life with different experiences with a kind and open mind.
Final Thoughts
Become a virtual thinker and implement your ideas on your project but at the time of implementation on life, it is important to get assurance about the consequences. One starts understanding the right path because of the LOA. But, everything that you planned and expected is not always a useful idea. So, have patience in your personality to see the complete picture. Complex thoughts start becoming initials and later on you find those simpler. I have faced difficulties and I do not want to face some extra damage. Therefore, now i believe one should have a clear objective to believe in the LOA.
